(Closed) I met someone

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Rockstar77:  Most of us don’t let our parents choose our spouses. So if you’re worried that perhaps that was your only path to marital bliss, I doubt it.

Post # 4
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2638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

I assume there’s probably a cultural norm going on here, but I don’t think you need to feel bad for your parents that you didn’t want to marry someone they chose/DO want to eventually marry someone YOU choose. Yes, and outside perspective, such as a parent’s, can be helpful when selecting a partner but only you and the other person know what it’s like to be together . . . and that’s what matters.

Post # 5
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9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

You asked your parents to find you a husband…like to arrange a marriage for you?

Post # 7
Hostess
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Rockstar77:  You asked your parents to matchmake for you?

“My parents have since then been looking for a groom as per my wishes but have failed in their attempts.”

Post # 8
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11384 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Rockstar77:  I am pretty sure I remember your last post. Don’t feel bad that they made the wrong choice. Maybe that tells you, that you would be the better person to decide who you marry or not. Go for someone you truly love!

Post # 10
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2286 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: Central Park

@peachacid:  it is probably part of her culture (ie Indian) 

Don’t feel bad! Your parents probably value your happiness if they agreed to break the engagement for someone you didn’t like. 

Post # 12
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11384 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Rockstar77:  Okay, I thought so. 🙂

Well maybe you should have a calm talk with your parents about how maybe you want to give it some time. Make sure the new person you met isn’t the one before they pick someone else?

Post # 14
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9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Just asking!  If you like the guy you met, how much is that a problem for your parents?

Post # 16
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10366 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

You haven’t “failed to do so”….you just haven’t met him yet. Big difference! Keep looking!

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