(Closed) I might leave

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

It’s not juse here that happens… It’s everywhere at the mo! 🙁 Sad really

Post # 5
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4429 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

you are more then entitled to your opinion but sometimes it might be best to keep it to yourself. comments like that are very rude you have to respect other peoples weddings and visions. if you continue with the attitude you have of ill say whatever i want regardless if it hurts another brides/someones feelings or angers them then your going to have a rough time on the bee.

if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all. i do it all the time.

i’m not getting rude with you or trying to pick a fight with you Caz that’s the last thing i want to do is fight with people i don’t even know that are in other countries.

Post # 6
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409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Some people are just over sensitive, but at the same time, I guess we have to be aware that its more the way we write things, rather than what we’re actually saying that can come across as harsh when you’re not actually speaking to the person face to face. 

Im also from the UK so bluntness is no stranger to me 🙂 haha

Post # 7
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4429 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@keranos:  its not about being honest its about commenting on something that was not even asked. and it was wrong of you. if i saw your wedding dress and said it was ugly that would probably hurt your feelings. i don’t care at all what you or anyone else thinks of my dress. i see women wearing dresses i think are ugly all the time i don’t say a word why?!?! caz a wedding dress is a very personal choice. i did not ask in that thread if anyone liked my dress i asked which one.

Post # 8
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4047 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@Laurengrapes:  Yes, I agree with this.

Too often I see people on the Bee fuss about something someone said, and when I go back to the original post, it could really be read in various tones. Oftentimes on the internet it is easy to read something in an ill tone when really the intention was anything but. Posters and readers need to be aware of this and not jump to conclusions.

And yes, OP, if someone is asking for honesty, they need to accept such honesty even if it wasn’t what they wanted to hear.

Yet, I see no purpose in your post, as it verges on a flounce post. But also, things like this are posted all the time, and the Hive continues on. We seem to have our bitchy months, and others when everything is delightful. And really, for the most part, everyone here is great. There are just a few who spoil the fun.

Post # 10
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4429 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@bowsergirl:  it def was not about her being honest caz if you check this post i got a whole bunch of honesty lol i can handle that here is the honest post when i asked for honesty

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/im-in-love-with-a-dress-help-and-brutally-honest-poll

maybe she did come off wrong and not mean to but i felt her comment was uncalled for i did not ask in this post if anyone liked the dresses i asked which dress and it was an update that had nothing to do with the original post so please don’t try to put this all on me like im some kind of overly sensitive person this comment just came out of left field.
http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/did-i-choose-right-pics-and-poll

 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@keranos:  you did not say the dresses were ugly you said  and i quote

“I am sorry but I wouldn’t have chosen either.”

yes un called for comment!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@HisNightOwl2014:  Don’t make this thread into a place for personal disputes. Take it to a PM if you still have things to say.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@keranos:  i think i saw that one it was annoying that the ring was not big enough for her

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