Post # 1
I miss my ex-girlfriend so bad. It feels like a hole that’s the size of her is missing inside me. We broke up recently, closing to 3 weeks, and we haven’t talked ever since. Well, there was that time when I tried messaging her but she shut me down by saying I’m reaching out too soon. How soon is soon, anyway? Looking back at our relationship, she and I always had a thing for timing. Whether it’s making our relationship official three months after the romance date tour or us giving our relationship another go, timing was always a crucial matter.
I’m so torn right now between talking to her or waiting for another time. When are you supposed to reach out to your ex after your break up? I’m not trying to reach out because I want to get back together just yet. I’m reaching out because I want us to be at least on speaking terms. I still think we have another chance. If we’d be on speaking terms then we could at least work out things. I don’t know. I really, really miss her so much.
Post # 2
Its hard and it sucks but you’ve gotta let her go. If she wants to come back, she will. Keep busy with hobbies, the gym, etc. It’s still very fresh.
Post # 3
Don’t. YouveY already broken up multiple times. Keep yourself busy and move on.
Post # 4
This is tough, I’ve been there. You really have to respect her wishes and leave it alone though. Just trust that she will get in touch when/if she wants to speak to you. Maybe use your Notes app to type up the message you’d like to send and just leave it there (read: do not send!). This way you can get it out if your system while keeping your distance.
Post # 5
- Wedding: August 2018 - Banquet Hall/Conference Center
People have different definitions of “soon”. Like you, I think short term so 3 weeks of waiting to get in touch was agony for me through a similar breakup with a friend. But for her, 3 weeks was too soon and I think I blew my chance because I didn’t wait long enough. I know it’s super duper hard, but just try not to think about it. Wait until the 3 month mark and see how you feel.
Post # 6
“When are you supposed to reach out to your ex after your break up?”
“I’m not trying to reach out because I want to get back together just yet.“
But you want to eventually? You broke up for a reason. Stay broken up.
Post # 7
Closing this because this same question is all over the internet. OP, if you have a question for this community, please post an original version of the question and we would be happy to help!
Unfortunately we can’t keep up posts that are copy pastes.