(Closed) I miss her so bad. Should I reach out?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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4892 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Its hard and it sucks but you’ve gotta let her go. If she wants to come back, she will. Keep busy with hobbies, the gym, etc. It’s still very fresh. 

Post # 3
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2729 posts
Sugar bee

Don’t. YouveY already broken up multiple times. Keep yourself busy and move on.

Post # 4
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263 posts
Helper bee

This is tough, I’ve been there. You really have to respect her wishes and leave it alone though. Just trust that she will get in touch when/if she wants to speak to you. Maybe use your Notes app to type up the message you’d like to send and just leave it there (read: do not send!). This way you can get it out if your system while keeping your distance.

Post # 5
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Banquet Hall/Conference Center

People have different definitions of “soon”. Like you, I think short term so 3 weeks of waiting to get in touch was agony for me through a similar breakup with a friend. But for her, 3 weeks was too soon and I think I blew my chance because I didn’t wait long enough. I know it’s super duper hard, but just try not to think about it. Wait until the 3 month mark and see how you feel.

Post # 6
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1411 posts
Bumble bee

“When are you supposed to reach out to your ex after your break up?”

Never

 

“I’m not trying to reach out because I want to get back together just yet.

But you want to eventually? You broke up for a reason. Stay broken up.

Post # 7
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11617 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Closing this because this same question is all over the internet. OP, if you have a question for this community, please post an original version of the question and we would be happy to help!

Unfortunately we can’t keep up posts that are copy pastes. 

 

thanks!

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