(Closed) I miss her so much…..vent kind of long…..

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
178 posts
Blushing bee

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this!  It’s got to be difficult without her there to share in your excitment.  I don’t really have any good advice, but know I’m sending hugs your way!

My dad isn’t all that excited about talking about wedding things, he hasn’t even said congratulations to us yet (been engaged 3 months so far).  His excuse (that he told my sister) is that he doesn’t want to act excited because I might quit school to speed up the wedding and get married if he shows any excitement.  Not sure how he got around to that because I’ve wanted to go to this school and pursue this career my whole life, and am almost as dedicated to it as I am to my Fiance.  Plus, it’s better for me and my Fiance if I finish school because it will give us a good second income and we’ll be better able to provide for a family, but he’s never been an adult and come to discuss this directly with me, and would be too stubborn to listen to the explanation anyway. 

The only thing I do, is just not talk about it around him, and share it with people who are excited instead, like friends and FIs parents.  Its at least 2 years in the future anyway so letting him in on the details can wait.  Congratulations on getting into the grad program!  You are in a very exciting time in your life and I hope you can find other people who will be excited with you and be a shoulder to lean on as you are missing your mom!

The topic ‘I miss her so much…..vent kind of long…..’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors