(Closed) I miss him so much…. Seeing Ex-FI at work is breaking my heart.

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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806 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I just read all your anonymous posts and I think you did what you had to do in breaking up with him.  I think the issues could be workable if he WANTED to change, but I don’t think he does.  Like you said, he’s comfortable with his life.  When I read what you wrote about him the word that comes to mind is “weak.”  As much as you love each other, this doesn’t look like a “lifetime match” for YOU based on the things you’ve written.  I think you want and deserve more than that in your life partner. 

Is there any way you can get another job or switch locations so you don’t see him so much?  That’s got to be making it way harder to move on.

Post # 19
Member
806 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I understand – it has to be incredibly hard (even more so because you see him so often still).

Has it gotten any easier with time?

Post # 20
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2004 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

You’re right—you can love someone, they can love you, and it still won’t ever be right. It does suck. Keep remembering him playing Call of Duty while the bill collectors call.

You are always welcome at Weddingbee! ::hugs::

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