- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
Bees, I really could use some help. I wrote a post a long time ago about my parents and the fighting that was going on between them and me. Long story short, we quit talking to one another because of it. I had a nervous breakdown and have been in counciling ever since. I even tried to reconcile before me and SO got married, but that blew up in my face. Most of my family turned against me and my SO. My only immediate family that showed up to my wedding was my mom’s parents. Fast forward to today. I got a call from my younger sister who tells me I have some mail sent to their address still and she has some boxes for me as well(she is the postmaster). I’m a little worried.
They’ve had nothing to do with me for so long. My SO’s family really stepped in to help me when I was down. After our fight the stress was so bad I developed IBS and was in and out of hospitals constantly and never received a call. One part of me wants to forgive and forget and the other half wants to tell them never to call again. My SO wants nothing to do with them either for how they treated us and did not go to our wedding over something so silly. Please help as I don’t want my feelings hurt or theirs.