(Closed) I miss my space. ahhhh. (just a vent)

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oooh poor you! That sucks! DH’s mom has stayed with us for a week or so at a time for various reasons and man, it’s stressful!!! 48 more hours and it’ll be done! Two sleeps! You can do it!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

requiring a ladder to get up to it.

hehehe im sorry but this made me laugh  – hopefully sunday will come soon for you

 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I don’t blame you. I like having my space as well. I live in a 3 bedroom trailer, but only one bedroom has a bed, and that’s mine : ) It’s not that I don’t like having company, it’s just the people who’ve inquired about staying over have the tendency to be nosy and I don’t want that, so I just tell them I don’t have anywhere for them to sleep.

 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Oh that does suck!  It stresses me out when the future-in-laws visit us too.  We don’t really have a space issue, so they stay in the spare bedroom, but I get stressed out regardless.  The were here for the last few days and just left this morning.

My Future Mother-In-Law cleans our house EVERY time she is over.  Even if it is already clean, she vacuums and washes dishes and mops and dusts and washes walls sometimes.  It drives me crazy.  I know she is trying to be helpful and has good intentions, but honestly, to me it feels like I am not good enough as a “housewife” and she feels the need to clean up after me.  She buys a bunch of crap that she leaves here for us to eat (and we don’t buy much junk food ourselves).  She also buys new stuff for our house randomly and without asking us – for example, we came home today from work (they had already left to go home) and found a new set of bedding and a new comforter for our spare bedroom.  Yesterday, I came home and she had done our laundry and gone into our bedroom (whose door I left shut because it is a disaster – I have clothes everywhere!) to put our clothes away for us.  Yep – I came home to a pile of my freshly washed, neatly folded underwear on my bed.  SERIOUSLY?!  My Future Mother-In-Law washed my dirty undies!  I know she has good intentions, but HELLO!  There are certain boundaries…and she has crossed them.  I think I am going to have to get my Fiance to talk to her about this.  We need boundaries or this is going to drive me crazy forever!

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