(Closed) I must be an idiot.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m confused. You searched for an ex on FB so now you need to end your engagement? Do you have feelings for said ex? Unless I’m losing it, this thread is missing some details. 

Post # 5
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@FrozenFeet: I’m so confused… there’s so much going on in this post! 

So you’re leaving your SO because you like your ex?

Or you just don’t have feelings for your SO anymore?

More details, please!

Post # 8
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@FrozenFeet: You need to just end it with your SO, especially if you’re looking up exes and such on FB. Waiting indefinitely for the “right” time is going to hurt him more in the long run, IMO. No one wants to be strung along.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper

End your engagement and move on with your life. No point prolonging the inevitable.

Post # 10
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You need to end your engagement ASAP!  Your Fiance deserves your honesty.

I would stay away from the ex too though…he doesn’t sound like a winner!

Post # 11
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@FrozenFeet: Good luck to you. Don’t go chasing exes, though- especially those that are not single! 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@FrozenFeet: Well, you said you both kind of know it’s headed in this direction, so it shouldn’t come as a complete surprise, right? 

Breaking up is like pulling off a Band-Aid, as cliche as it sounds: Just suck it up and do it, and even though it’s going to sting for a while, it will make everything better if it’s right for you.

 

Post # 15
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Don’t plan a dinner out or anything to discuss it.

If your mind is made up, just do it the next time you’re hanging out, leave and be done with it.

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