(Closed) I Need a Hug.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Don’t take so much responsibility on yourself. There are a lot of politically correct phrases for use in just this type of situation, nobody has to get metaphorically thrown under a bus. Read up on resignation letters and exit interviews. Read samples to get ideas and write down what it is you want to say. Don’t make a script, but write it down, walk away from it, then read it again in the morning. Hugs, and feel better!

Post # 19
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10846 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

((((hugs))))) Sunshine next time call me!!!!! You’re making a terrific move, it just sucks to feel like you’re letting someone down (when you’re not!). I totally get how you feel. Keep focusing on the light at the end of the tunnel. You’re not a failure in any way! You’ve done great work where you are, but you can’t be in a job where there is so much ridiculous-ness going on! It’s time to move forward and upward! 🙂

Post # 20
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1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hugs!! You made the right decision for you and in a couple of days you will feel much better!  Do you have to throw someone under the bus?  Or can you just say..you know, I didn’t get along with someone, but I would rather not mention names, etc etc.

Post # 21
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1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

(((hugs))) Sounds like you made the right decision, even if it was a hard one.  Hopefully soon you’ll be able to put it behind you!

I am also curious about @MrsCoachBtoBee’s suggestion…when I left, I was able to vaguely suggest there were some higher-ups whose principles differed from mine, and that that was a factor in my leaving, but I didn’t name names and they didn’t really push me to.  Might you be able to sugar-coat it a little bit, or just anonymize it?  You do have to be honest, though; I know that’s hard but you don’t want to burn bridges if you can help it!

Post # 22
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2236 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Linz1231: That sucks so bad! ::hugs::

Post # 24
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5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

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@Linz1231:  Thinking of you and wondering how you are doing.  HUGS!!!!

Post # 25
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507 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

OMG, I’m cracking up over that Dave Chapelle skit!! What a good hubby for making you laugh. 🙂

In all seriousness though, no words of wisdom, just wishing you good luck.

Post # 26
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2260 posts
Buzzing bee

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@Linz1231: Awe *Hugs* hopefully they won’t require to have that sit down with them and then you can avoid this whole situation.

Post # 28
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1313 posts
Bumble bee

Oooooh!!! I hope you are feeling better and things improve soon. So sorry you’re having to go through this :/ How uncomfortable and tough.

At least you know your new job will be amazing, so just stay focused on that!

 

(And… no I don’t think you have any obligation what so ever to have an exit interview/sit down with them.. you are gone and done!)

Post # 29
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5976 posts
Bee Keeper

Ugh are you kidding me? They wanted to invite the person who you’re having your issues with? Do you think they know that’s the reason you’re leaving?

Definitely decline the sit down with them. Exit interviews are never mandatory, and just let them know that you don’t feel comfortable and the resignation is non-negotiable.

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