- 8 years ago
So i have been with my guy for 3 years and lived together for 1. I have been looking at wedding stuff for months online, it is all I can think about. When you are ready, you are ready….right?! So recently i have set a new date in my mind of when i want to get married. I would love to marry my man December 18 2010…. very close right and especially without a ring!!! Both me and my man would love a winter wedding, but i dont want to wait until next winter!!! I think it would be great to have the wedding before christmas that way all the family are here for the wedding and holiday festivities and after christmas we could go on a honeymoon! Also it would work out better for our schedules because i would be on winter break and I am most likely taking the following semester off and my bf will be laid off for the season.I have come to a conclusion that if my man doesn’t propose to me by september 18 i am going to propose to him, even though i used to make fun of ppl like this and say that i would never ever do that! I know that i would probably be happier if i just let him do it, but i really want to get married this winter even though that would only give us 3 months to plan. The funny thing is my man’s mother actually proposed to his father! I made a lot of fun of her but now i am kind of in her shoes. I just dont know if i would be fully satisfied being the proposer… i am worried i would feel like something is missing. I know alot of you are just going to rag of my bf and say he needs to grow some balls,, but that isnt the point lol i have allready touched on the subject many of times lol.. but i am going to take matters into my own hands if he doesnt beat me to it before september 18th. I need help and advice.. be nice to me though :)!