(Closed) I need advice about Reception foods

posted 6 years ago in Reception
  • poll: For an 8:00pm reception, plated dinner OR heavy appetizers?
    Plated Dinner : (24 votes)
    56 %
    Heavy Appetizers : (19 votes)
    44 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Dinner; that’s the timeframe you’d be having either your wedding or reception.  People would be starving otherwise.

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @amandaohh:  My ceremony starts at the same time and we’re having a plated dinner. It’s going to run late (8:00 pm cocktail, 9:00pm is reception start time) but in our circles, late dinners are par for the course.

    Have you attended other evening weddings? From personal experience, either option is fine as long as no one is expecting dinner and eats their last meal before they leave for your event.

    What were you leaning towards?

    Post # 5
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    @MrsLongcoatPeacoat:  I completely agree.

    OP: If you do go with appetizers, it needs to be enough that it fills guests the same as a meal or indicate on the invitations that it will be appetizers so they can eat an early dinner.

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I think either way would be appropriate, but I would be sure to indicate that it is a “cocktail reception” if you choose to go the heavy hors d’oeuvres route. 

    Personally, I really love heavy hors d’oeuvres (you could always serve enough that each person gets a full meal portion) because I think there are a lot more creative things you can do, and you tend to give more variety this way. I also just think the “cocktail party” vibe is fun for late evening weddings.

    Post # 7
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    If the reception started at 8pm, as a guest I would not expect a full meal.  I’d grab a light meal before the 7:30pm ceremony and snack all night.

    Post # 8
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I think your timing is late enough that you could get away with a heavy hors d’ouevres menu, so either could work.  If you decide to do the hors d’ouevres though, you need to indicate it on the invitation so people know to eat ahead of time, and definitely make sure you’ve got lots of apps passed around!

    Post # 10
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    I would go with the plated meal, with the pricing options you have. I think it will end up costing more per person to have enough food.

    ETA: And  I think it would be less stressful, you know people will have enough to eat.

    Post # 11
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I would do a plated dinner.  If you go with the heavy apps, you need to have enough that people can eat a food amount equivalent to a plated meal.

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @amandaohh:  In that case, I think you should go with the catered meal. I think an apps only reception should really have more than 3 appetizers, even if they are on the more filling side.

    Post # 13
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Is buffet dinner an option because that will be cheaper, plus I prefer buffet that way i can choose what I want on my plate

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @bells:  We were actually quoted MORE for a buffet than a plated dinner…go figure! It seems most people on the bee have had the opposite experience, but I assumed it was because they would have to prepare more food at a buffet than a plated meal. I prefer buffet, too, so we spent the extra money.

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    As a guest I would expect a full meal for an 8pm reception.  That’s prime dinner time for me and most people I know.

    I think with the pricing you have you should definitely do the plated meal considering how inexpensive it is. Plus 3 appetizers is not really “heavy” or filling enough for that time frame.  That’s more of cocktail hour appropriate.

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think a late dinner is perfecty acceptable and I would prefer that for an evening wedding.

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