(Closed) I Need Advice Bees (Slightly Long)

posted 7 years ago in Career
Post # 6
Member
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

You dont really need to go away on a real vacay. Spend a day on yourself. Get your nails done, get a massage just take the time for yourself, and clear your head. Its understandable why you are upset!! And im sorry. So… do you have to move bc he got the promotion and you cant work together with him being your boss…?? Anyways he didnt do to you on purpose.. All and all no matter who got it. It will still better both your lives. It will get better. I say if you have to move stores move… But dont go into it thinkng its going to be awful. Keep your chin up. 

Post # 7
Member
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

is there an actual policy stating why you are unable to work together? if its because no married couples – well you are not married yet, if its because of complaints from coworkers due to the relationship then thats a different issue

im sorry – it cant imagine how it would feel to have your employment at risk over this, i suggest you request a meeting with managment to discuss the actual situation, when are the next round of promotions due and maybe you can discuss with with them to see if there is more you can do to achieve it. goodluck

Post # 8
Member
3639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

DO NOT go on a solo vacation, I feel that it would distance you even more from your boyfriend. It will also make funds tight and therefore stress you more. 

It sucks when one of you gets something and the other doesn’t. I think perhaps you should start looking for another job, as much as you love this one, it might be time to find your own place to work so that the two of you aren’t competing. Also, they said that you have to leave? So it doesn’t really sound like you have a choice. It sucks but we have to make sacrifices within a relationship. This time, it’s you. 

Hopefully you’ll find somewhere you love just as much. It does sound like they’ll give you an amazing reference though. 🙂

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