- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2010
So I’ve had my first facebook confrontation! Ugh never thought it would happen!
So there this friend of my Husbands is a she. Let’s call her L! So L was supposed to have a baptism party this past Saturday. She canceled because of rain, but it didn’t end up raining, and decided to reschedule the date to this Saturday knowing it is the same day me and some other friends where planning on throwing a party for our birthdays. Which my birthday is today! Anyways the day is was canceled a friend who’s birthday we are also celebrating we will call him E made a comment on Facebook (starting to hate this site)
E’s facebook comment:
“It’s a nice day for a baptism”
Me: Same day
“So much for a party!
E: same day
“I know huh?”
Me: So you still having the party next sat? (I asked this because my husband told me he was not sure if he was going to cancel or not)
And I also mentioned I was looking forward to his party this sat.
L comment on 2/28
“It’s funny how the only people talking sh*t about my party not happening this past Saturday where the un-invited and the one not expected to show up. Sorry E and Cindy (me). You guys figure out who is who!
I responded the same day:
Wow I don’t think your comment is funny. I really don’t appreciate you throwing my name in there like that. I would never do something like that to you. I was only commenting on it because I was looking forward to celebrating my birthday with E at his party.
There where other comments on the post but I only made the one.
She also posted a comment about people being to sensitive etc.
Some other people said things like, “if you can’t take the heat get out of the kitchen” etc
Okay first of all I never meant to get her upset with any of my comments. I wish she would have come to me and said it bothered her so I could explain; instead she writes a rant and throws in my name. And the comment in the end had over 50 post and not all comments where nice.
I really don’t want to go to the Baptism Saturday. I don’t want to celebrate my birthday being around them which will be uncomfortable.
I didn’t want to continue to engage her on FB and at the same time with all the comments they were making made me feel the need to defend myself instead of taking the higher road. But I didn’t comment again.
They claim including my Husband that it was a joke and I’m now taking this way too seriously. So my hubby think I need to let it go like it never happened, would you?
Let me also add in that this girl is a long time friend (nothing romantics she’s married and pregos) as is the sisters (which one he’s a godparent to their child) and whole family. But he will be the first to admit that all three sister are aggressive, never say sorry, b*tchs. He literally admitted that he was afraid this would happen is I accidentally said the wrong thing, Opps! I just don’t see the point in associating myself with people like this that I feel are so negative, so that would mean never going to any of their parties at their houses which is often. Is it fare to say I don’t want to go to their house because I’d just feel uncomfortable.
Please some nice positive feedback would be nice.
Am I over reacting?
I know its just facebook and trust me usually I never get involved in anything like this.