(Closed) I need help bees! How can I console my friend who just miscarried?

posted 8 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

to me its the little things that count

I.e bringing  dinner round one night, taking her shopping for a day, asking her to go for a walk. Letting her know your there. Maybe giving her call every two days or something asking how she is…or maybe just sending her flowers with a cute saying.

that kind of stuff is helpful and would be appreciated.

Post # 4
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563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Oh, I’m so sorry.  She really needs a friend – try to visit her and bring her food, and tell her how sorry you are and that you are there to listen if she ever needs anyone to talk to.  Let her set the tone as to how often you discuss this situation.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am so sorry for your friend. All you can do is just be there to listen to her. She will feel the loss for a very long time. I know this from experience. It is not something you get over. It is something that you just learn to live with and put aside after a time. It will always be in the back of her mind. When it happened to me, it helped me to know I had someone that I could talk to and lean on.

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