Post # 1
Agh, so l don’t know what to do now…. So first of I decided that for my fiancé’s wedding present I was going to do a boudoir photo shoot. He LOVES lingerie so I thought that it was a perfect idea. I found this awesome company and paid a lot of money and I love my album…. Now here comes the issue. Last night I was on Weddingbee, and saw another girl posted about her boudoir and put photos up. I thought this was the perfect time to see what he says about it. To my shock he told me that the whole idea is weird and that he doesn’t know what the point of it is. I said well I think people give them to their fiancé as a gift and then he really didn’t say anything. So now I have no idea if I should still give him the album for our wedding or not. I am completely shocked right now that he didn’t like the idea. The thing is that if I don’t ever use the album it was a complete waste of money, but I feel like an idiot giving him something that I know he thinks is stupid…So I got to ask what other girls would do…
Post # 3
well, do you think you look good in the pics? I would just be honest, tell him you wanted to do something cool for him, and now your feeling wierd about it. At least he can appreciate the sentiment-even if it’s with a chuckle.
Post # 4
I would tell him about it but maybe just keep it for yourself? He may completely change his mind once he knows he could have an album of you. 🙂 I know my SO has a bad habit of trying to guess how I feel about something and then preemptively agreeing with me, maybe that’s what he was doing?
Post # 5
that’s a good point. He may have thought saying he didnt like it was the “right” answer. Or he may have thought it was strange to put those kind of photos publicly on the internet. Since you alread had the album made, id still give it to him. He will probably love it when he sees its sexy private photos of you.
Post # 6
Yeah, I have a feeling he might have thought this question was a trick and by agreeing that it is a swell idea, he was oggling other women or something. Men are weird. I can’t see ANY man complaining about pictures of his fiancee in fancy pants.
Post # 7
I think that it’s an awesome gift to give to your husband on the day of. Maybe you could leave it somewhere only he would see it, or even have your maid of honor or someone close to you give it to him all wrapped up and tell him to open it in private. It’s such an intimate gift, I’m not really sure how he could NOT love it!
Post # 8
It may be awkward now, but I bet you guys will eventually laugh about it. Tell him the truth and who knows, maybe he’ll love it since its you.
Post # 9
I think he’ll love it because it’s filled with you. You can always tease him about it. “You know, I made you an album filled with sexy pics of me, but since you don’t like it, I guess I’ll just have to keep it to myself then.”
Post # 10
You already did it – I absolutely think you should give it to him and I think he’ll love it! I think that lots of guys think the idea is maybe “weird,” but they’d still love to have hot pictures of their wives! I think he’ll be quite happy 🙂
Post # 11
Guys aren’t very good at applying random stuff to you or themselves. They just aren’t. It’s just like when bees post on here how their man “doesn’t like” certain types of dresses and feel conflict when THEY love the dresses – in my opinion, they just don’t know how it will look on YOU! Or in this case, how much they’d LOVE an album of YOU that is all hot and sexy. I mean, c’mon, who wouldn’t love that??
I agree with others that he may have thought that was the “right” answer or he’s clueless that you’d ever want to do one for him.
I say give it to him!
Post # 12
Thanks ladies for all the help. Maybe he did think that he was giving me the right answer, but luckly I still have time to think about it. My wedding isnt until Sept.!