(Closed) I need help, what would you do

posted 6 years ago in Photos/Videos
  • poll: Still give the gift?
    Yes : (21 votes)
    91 %
    No : (2 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    well, do you think you look good in the pics? I would just be honest, tell him you wanted to do something cool for him, and now your feeling wierd about it. At least he can appreciate the sentiment-even if it’s with a chuckle.

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee

    I would tell him about it but maybe just keep it for yourself? He may completely change his mind once he knows he could have an album of you. 🙂 I know my SO has a bad habit of trying to guess how I feel about something and then preemptively agreeing with me, maybe that’s what he was doing?

    Post # 5
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @batwoman:  

    that’s a good point. He may have thought saying he didnt like it was the “right” answer. Or he may have thought it was strange to put those kind of photos publicly on the internet. Since you alread had the album made, id still give it to him. He will probably love it when he sees its sexy private photos of you.

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Yeah, I have a feeling he might have thought this question was a trick and by agreeing that it is a swell idea, he was oggling other women or something.  Men are weird. I can’t see ANY man complaining about pictures of his fiancee in fancy pants.

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think that it’s an awesome gift to give to your husband on the day of. Maybe you could leave it somewhere only he would see it, or even have your maid of honor or someone close to you give it to him all wrapped up and tell him to open it in private. It’s such an intimate gift, I’m not really sure how he could NOT love it!

    Post # 8
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    It may be awkward now, but I bet you guys will eventually laugh about it. Tell him the truth and who knows, maybe he’ll love it since its you.

    Post # 9
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    270 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I think he’ll love it because it’s filled with you.  You can always tease him about it.  “You know, I made you an album filled with sexy pics of me, but since you don’t like it, I guess I’ll just have to keep it to myself then.”

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    You already did it – I absolutely think you should give it to him and I think he’ll love it! I think that lots of guys think the idea is maybe “weird,” but they’d still love to have hot pictures of their wives! I think he’ll be quite happy 🙂

    Post # 11
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Guys aren’t very good at applying random stuff to you or themselves. They just aren’t. It’s just like when bees post on here how their man “doesn’t like” certain types of dresses and feel conflict when THEY love the dresses – in my opinion, they just don’t know how it will look on YOU! Or in this case, how much they’d LOVE an album of YOU that is all hot and sexy. I mean, c’mon, who wouldn’t love that??

    I agree with others that he may have thought that was the “right” answer or he’s clueless that you’d ever want to do one for him.

    I say give it to him!

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