- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I am having a very hard time deciding how to handle a situation with one of my bridesmaids. Here is the Background: I am a senior in college gettng married this May. This particular Bridesmaid or Best Man and I have been friends since freshman year. We have really enjoyed spending time together she has even gone on vacation with my family. I asked her to be a bridesmaid in August. She seemed really excited and I was really excited to have her apart of my wedding. I am not sure what has happened since then but we hardly ever speak, and if we do I initiate. I would really like to find a way to tell her I no longer want her to be a bridesmaid. The tough situation is they have already ordered dresses- I would obviously be willing to give her money back if I asked her to just be a guest.
My biggest reason for wanting to not haveher in my wedding party anymore is I know the day of, at showers, the bacchelorette party she is going to be half pretending to be excited. I want to be surronded by people who genuinely care about me and are excited for me on my wedding day.
WHAT TO DO?!?!?!?! And if I choose to not have her in my bridal party how do I tell her??