(Closed) I need HELP with a BM situation!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
801 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

It’s YOUR day, so do what YOU want.

Tell her how it is: You feel you guys haven’t been particularly close lately and although you really want her at your wedding, you don’t feel comfortable having her as a bridesmaid. 

Post # 4
Member
79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@vintagebride26: How about maybe talking to her first and catching up to see what is going on with her first before you remove her from the Bridal Party. There may be some thing going on with her personally that is not allowing her to display her excitment for you. Just talk to her and see what is going on. If she still is withholding the excitment you are wanting from your Bridal Party then ask her to resign as a Bridesmaid or Best Man.  Just explain to her that obviously she just isn’t into this whole wedding thing and you don’t want to push it on her and you want everyone to be just as excited as you are. You want it to be memorable because this is a milestone in your life that you will remember forever! Just make sure you let her know that you want her there as a guest for sure!

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