(Closed) I need help WITH CHOSING BETWEEN MY BEST FREINDS

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll:
    SHOULD I CHOSE THE ONE THAT I GREW UP WITH : (1 votes)
    3 %
    SHOULD I CHOSE THE ONE THAT I AM CLOSES WITH NOW : (3 votes)
    9 %
    SHOULD I CHOSE THEM BOTH : (9 votes)
    28 %
    SHOULD I CHOSE ONE AS A MAID OF HONOR AND ONE MATRON OF HONOR : (19 votes)
    59 %
    SHOULD I LET THEM DRAW THEOR TILTTLE OUT OF A HAT : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    147 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    Why not have both as maid and matron of honor. My cousin is getting married 6 months before me and will be my matron of honor and my best friend since I was young will be my maid of honor. There really was no other way I am equally close to them both, we were all roommates just a year ago. They will be splitting the Maid/Matron of Honor duties and they have no problems with it at all.

    Post # 4
    Member
    2476 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I vote for one as maid and one as matron.  Personally, I would be happy to play either role, and wouldn’t be offended if there was another Maid/Matron of Honor in the picture.  🙂

    Post # 5
    Member
    1573 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I don’t see anything wrong with having both.  I’d think they’d appreciate being included.

    Post # 6
    Member
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Are you still very close with your childhood best friend? If so, I would say make her your Maid/Matron of Honor – sounds like she’s a sure bet to stick around for years to come too 🙂

    But you’re also close to your new friend, which is great!!! So maybe ask her to be a bridesmaid?

    Post # 7
    Member
    898 posts
    Busy bee

    There’s no reason why both of them can’t stand up with you. I think they would both be honored, I know I would.

    Post # 8
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    1230 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Like everybody else, I see nothing wrong with having both a maid and matron of honor. If I were either of your friends, I would be just as happy sharing the position as I would if it were just me.

    Post # 9
    Member
    69 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    I think you should have one as a maid of honor and one as a matron of honor… that way you’re honoring them both.

    Post # 10
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    7053 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I had one matron (when I married the x) and one maid of honor.  I couldn’t choose b/w my lifelong bff and my sis who is my other llifelong bff

    Now when I am marrying T next summer, there will be 3.  All matrons (2) and 1 maid of honor.

    I’m not distinguishing between any of them.  They’ve been by my side through the good and bad times and they’re all so special to me.  In some cases I believe rules (or even perceived ones) are made to be broken!

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