(Closed) I NEED MORE SELF CONTROL!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Should I sneek another peek??
    Yes!! Why not!? Try it on even! (but only once!) : (8 votes)
    16 %
    Yes, take a look, but don't try it on! Let him put it on your finger first. : (5 votes)
    10 %
    Stop thinking about it! You'll only get more sucked in if you look again! : (23 votes)
    47 %
    Other: e.g., Have a glass of wine and go to bed. : (13 votes)
    27 %
  • Post # 3
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    1471 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    dont do it! leave it alone!!!!!! go do something else, or get out of the apartment!

    Post # 4
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    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    im no help – i would be having that thing on my finger before i clicked submit on this post!

    BUT – do not try it on, think of how your soon to be Fiance will feel if when he puts it on your finger isnt the first time, he didnt get to see it happen….. of course i dont listen to my own advise but hopefully you are smarter than i am

    be strong!

    Post # 5
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    1471 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    if i could have picked 2 I would have picked the 2 on the bottom, get a glas of wine and go to bed! The first time you have it on should be when he puts it on your finger! so leave it alone and dont look at it agian ๐Ÿ™‚ Good Luck

    Post # 8
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    915 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I think the wine is more likely to make you put it on ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Stop looking at it and think about how much more you will love it if you haven’t seen it in awhile. I take off my ring before bed and I get so excited to put it on the morning even though it hasn’t been that long. 

    Post # 9
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    385 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Did you find out if it’s a diamond or a CZ yet? o.o

    Post # 10
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    515 posts
    Busy bee

    Haha, I don’t have any advice but this would totally be me if I was in your shoes. Good luck!

    Post # 11
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    148 posts
    Blushing bee

    This is very Lord of the Rings. Ha ha “MY PRECIOUS!”

    I chose “wine/bed,” but I don’t really see the harm in looking @ it. You’ll obviously be just as excited when he slips it on your finger, which will be very soon, I’m sure. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 12
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    20 posts
    Newbee

    Oh I’m in exactly the same position!!

    I new he had the ring and I found it the other day…I obviously couldn’t resist a peek (I’d chosen it so I knew what it looked like) it looks even more beautiful in the “flesh”. I did manage to resist trying it on though – I want to wear it for the first time when he proposes as it’s so special.

    The other thing I found was a load of notes about the engagement; where he’s booked, where it’ll be and when, but I didn’t look – that bit was killing me but I knew if I looked it’d take away the most important part of it for my SO. I suppose the ring is just a sideline for him, it’s HOW he does it that he’s most excited about.

    Anyway, now I know where it is it’s going to be super-hard not to make sneaky peeks a regular occurance!

    Hope we can both be strong!

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