(Closed) I Need Serious Advice.. Please Help… VENTING…

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: SHOULD
    TELL HER I READ HER MESSAGES : (1 votes)
    9 %
    JUST LEAVE IT ALONE AND IGNORE HER : (9 votes)
    82 %
    SHOULD I BE A TOTALLY B***H TO HER WHEN SHE DOES MESSAGE ME : (1 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5823 posts
    Bee Keeper

    #1: You shouldn’t snoop.  It breaks a person’s trust irreparably.

    #2: You shouldn’t tell your BFF you snooped for reason #1.

    #3:  You can confront your friend since you already know they were together.  But I don’t understand why it’s such a big deal that they hung out?  Are you just mad she tried to cover it up for him?

    You didn’t mention anything rude or disrespectful that they said on FB.  But I think you should clear the air with your BFF and explain why you’re upset.  It doesn’t sound like any reason to uninvite her to the wedding or anything.

    Post # 4
    Member
    2588 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    You probably shouldn’t have snooped. Calmly talk to her, but be the bigger person and let it go.

    Post # 5
    Member
    133 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    this must be realy bugging you cuz you just posted this yest? Its bugging you that bad I think you need to say somthing to her its eating you up bad girl. You need to be focusing on your happy day this needs to be resolved.

    Post # 6
    Member
    610 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I have to agree.  It’s not the best thing to log into someone’s FB account.  It’s like tapping someone’s phone.  I can understand how hurt you are, but take a day or two to think things over.  Words said in haste may only make the situation worse.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2006 posts
    Buzzing bee

    While what she said in those messages is disrespectful I don’t think you can say anything to her about it. You shouldn’t have logged into her facebook and read her private messages in the first place.

    Post # 9
    Member
    499 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    The problem is that she had private conversaations in a private place. In order to confront her about it, you need to admit that you invaded her privacy. Once you admit that, what you found becomes irrelevant because you have betrayed her too.

    I know you’re hurting and I know it must feel awful to see these things written about you. But of the two crimes here, yours is actually worse.

    If I were you I’d let this go and forget her password. Nothing good ever comes from snooping. Seriously.

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