(Closed) I need some support and advice bees!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
1465 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am sorry you are feeling bad. My personal opinion is before you move on to another relationship it is important you seek counseling because there is a reason why you are picking the same man over and over. There is a reason that you are not aware of and until you find out what it is unfortunately you will pick the same type. I am speaking from experience because with me it was issues with my father that caused me to pick men just like him. It took me years to determine that it was unresolve feelings for my father. I decided to talk to my father and we spoke to every weekend for a year and counseling twice a week I got the closure I needed. Once I worked on myself, I chose a different man and I am glad I did because I know my worth without a man but at the time I didnt feel worthy. I hope this helps…

Post # 4
Member
6743 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@niasg1:  This seems like pretty solid advice – maybe you’re picking the same type of man that is a recipe for failure??

It’s probably not something you’re doing, although I have no idea what’s going on in the relationships.

If this guy was ever your friend, why don’t you just ask him?  Tell him like this – I know that you said you have lost feelings for me and I don’t want you to think that I am trying to get back together, but I just want to understand what’s going on because you and my ex said the same thing.  Please be honest with me and tell me if it’s something I’m doing that’s wrong – no hard feelings, I will appreciate your honesty even if it’s something you think will be hurtful.

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