(Closed) I need someone to talk to! No access to a mother!

posted 5 years ago in Dress
  • poll: What should I do?
    Tell him to stick with it? : (5 votes)
    42 %
    Tell him to do whatever his heart is telling him? : (6 votes)
    50 %
    Tell him to wait until the end of the year? : (1 votes)
    8 %
    Tell him to quit now? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    3572 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I think if he’s quitting because he’s afraid of failing, or afraid in general, he should stick with it. Maybe it’s a lot harder than he thought? If he’s quitting because he realizes he truly doesn’t want to be a game warden, he should get out.  

    It sounds like you need to get to the bottom of what the real issue is.  I wouldn;t force him one way or the other – because he could resent you later.  I guess just try to be empathetic and encourage him!  Sorry my advice isnt better. 

    Post # 5
    11356 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    How old is your FI?  How many jobs has he had thus far in his life and what types of work has he done? And what is he citing as his reasons for wanting to quit?

    Post # 6
    1181 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    If h quits oes h have a backup plan? If so maybe he should quit if not I would tell him to stick with it. I think you should find out why he really doesn’t want to do this any longer.

    Post # 7
    3241 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I agree with @futuremrsmp: –if he truely does not like the job then he should leave now, but if it’s a fear of failing then he should stick it out for a bit longer.


    Post # 8
    737 posts
    Busy bee

    @LDMTNBRIDE:  Sometimes we have a dream of what we would like to do for our career then when we actually get into the role, it may not seem as amazing as our dream.

    Maybe the danger part of the job is now not so glamerous like a movie or TV show, may be this is a concern for him.

    Totally agree you need to get to the bottom of this and made a decision if sticking to the job and quitting later add more costs to for the both of you.  Best to pay $5,000 now than $80,000 in two years time.  Best of luck.

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