(Closed) I need someone to talk to.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

OMG I would be demoting to BMs to guests!

 

Post # 4
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627 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ugh, so sorry you’re going through this. This is probably the toughest week for everyone, emotions are running high and I’m sure that’s affecting everyone involved. As long as you have your Fiance by your side, supporting you, do you best to relax and let all the negativity roll of your back. In a week you wil be married! Try to focus on that. You WILL get through this, and everything will be great. Good luck!!

Post # 5
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I’m so sorry that this is happening to you.

For the record, my best friend just got married this past October, and we carpooled between the hotel and the ceremony (ceremony and reception were in the same place) and it worked just fine. It was a tight squeeze for her dress, but that is the same thing that will happen in any vehicle even a limo.

I hope that you can just enjoy your day and brush off all the drama.

Post # 7
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14496 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

just…. one… more …. weeeeek!!  then no more wedding bs drama…..you can make it!!  

Post # 8
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1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m sorry.  That’s just awful.

Again, FTR, we rented SUV’s (just because we don’t have nice cars at all) for transportation and they worked just fine.  Just because you don’t get a limo (like everyone expects) doesn’t mean it’s not going to work out just fine.

I think I would be tempted to sit everyone down and tell them that you do not want drama on your wedding day.  If they argue, if they continue causing drama, that’s it, they’re out.  You don’t need to put up with that!

Post # 9
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1189 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Wow, I’m sorry. Your future in-laws acted pretty weird about the whole transportation thing. If they are so darn worried, they are free to fund an alternative, and perhaps you should tell them that 😉 Some people do things that make us feel like we are the ones taking crazy pills, but it does sound like they are actually the ones being quite unreasonable. Try to relax, get to the point where you are so over their drama you just don’t care what they say anymore, and enoy this time with all of your heart–in spite of their attempts to add drama. You’ll be married to your Fiance in one week! 🙂

Post # 10
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2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Hugs.

 

It will be over soon and you will be MARRIED. (It may help to repeat this as a mantra often.)

People sometimes suck, and I am sorry you are having all this stress.

Post # 11
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2025 posts
Buzzing bee

@LessIsMoore: THIS.

Pfft, if anybody is going to intentionally try and cause you drama on you and yours’ day, and is ANYTHING but supportive, then peace out. Don’t want to ride in a “cramped car”, drive yourself Some people are soo selfish!

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