(Closed) I need to make some sort of decision, and I’m completely at a loss (longgggg)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

It seems clear the thing to do is live all 4 of you together, why did she pull the plug? That sounds like the only solution that would suit everyone.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry and I know how you feel.  I’m married to my wonderful hubby (legally) but we are living apart right now.  I don’t have any advice because only you can take care of your family the best way you know how but I just wanted to let you know that you have the rest of your lives to be together.  It’s very noble of you and your fi to be so selfless to put your parents first right now.  It’s really moving to see kids taking the responsible route and not stick an aging parent into a home or let them fend for themselves.  I really admire you and trust me…you’ll be really glad you did it.  I’m sure you and your fi will be able to find out a solution that will make it easier for all parties.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Would you be able to get your dad a PCA for when you’re not around?

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