- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
so, I had this one girl… who I grew up with, and was originally my Maid of Honor.
I didn’t ask her to do anything, I said all I needed was her to be there for me and come for dresses, and I said there was this one trip to NY that was for me to go to Kleinfelds and whatever, and that I really wanted her to come.
Anyways… she had been flakey, hard to get a hold of, kept blowing off plans… then she ended up blowing off the trip, saying it was because of money… then invited me to dinner with her n another friend and went on and on about this 1000$ jacket she just bought and shoes and a watch, blah blah. and I’m like… really, why are you doing this? I was hurt.
Then when I tried to talk to her she admitted it wasn’t about money, it was the fact that she didn’t want to go to NY and not be able to just do what she wanted…
I told her it was important to me, and basically she said only if she could bring another friend or whaetver (this i s the same girl who said she’d only do bridesmaid stuff if the same friend would do it too. cool, good to know I’m not enough)
long story short, she stepped down to bridesmaid not Maid/Matron of Honor
Anyways, so since the beginning all the girls had been saying how fun it would be to go to Vegas for my bachelorette because none of them had gone and we all would want a break. Great. so we decided the last weekend in March.
The same friend went all “oh I donno, it’s not a good month for me to take time off for work”… okay that’s fine.
Well I emailed her today to ask which email she wants the info sent to since the girl organizing it would contact her… n she asked for dates and says
I’m jsut wondering exactly when and cost and where and stuff because I might be going to Vegas in March (WTF?!?!?!) and Australia in February…(february being when my bridal shower has been scheduled for, and she’d be missing that too)
I’m not saying she should drop everything for me… but why book stuff on top of the commitments she made to me? why miss EVERYTHING? I mean, you’re supposed to be my best friend and you’re not coming to one goddamn thing?
I’m so hurt, and so upset, I don’t even know what to do/say anymore. Vegas was her idea in the first place too! So… I donno. :'(