(Closed) I need to vent FMIL and FSIL ~ long sorry

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Sorry they’re such punk bias! I would think it’d not be as big of a deal with all those siblings at home to put to work, right? Such a manly job. =]

I think your Fiance should mention to his mom/sister about how rude they were at the bbq you and your parents had them at. I mean, c’mon, common tact says you don’t treat people like that, geesh. I would just have him call up and be like, "ya know, you were kinda rude and offensive to my Fiance and her parents. I dont’ think it settled well" and have them either apologize (which probably won’t happen, right?) or just make sure that little seed is planted for next time so that maybe they think before they open their big mouths. 

I think this is common though…my FI’s grandma walked into my kitchen to find the tupperware strewn on the floor (my mom was looking for a specific size because we were having a bbq and needles to say I shove the tupperware in there and slam the door shut to keep it from falling out…I know I’m not alone!) and made a comment about "oh my it looks like the baby made a mess!" even though it was obvious it was my mom who did it! And of  course nobody offered to help my mom bbq or bring out plates or anything except for me and my friends. It always rubbed my mom the wrong way that they made a bad first impression as "guests" in our home and now she ALWAYS brings it up. It’s so dumb that she draws it out so much, so I do sympathize! Sometimes people say things without realizing it’s not appropriate.  Does she do this kind of stuff ALL the time? I’d really have your Fiance bring it up or in person say "that’s not cool"

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