- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
could he agree to a one year trial? put in for the transfer, find a place and sign a one year lease, and re convene a few months in? also point out that you’re completely willing (it sounds like you are) to arrange trips home for birthdays, christmas, thanksgiving etc.
also – a man who thinks you’re smart and wonderful should WANT you to have a fulfilling, happy life. he should push you to be better, and take risks to achieve your goals. he should NOT push to keep you behind a fryer. your Fiance doesn’t sound like he’s interested in helping you achieve much of anything, except complete dependence on him.