(Closed) I need your help bees! I want to be engaged.posted 6 years ago in Waiting
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2015
Money isn’t an issue. It’s the lifelong commitment to you that is!
It’s not because he doesn’t like you or something, but because he’s too young.
I was 18 and Fiance was 20 when he proposed to me, but we had been together for two years and have known each other for almost seven years now, with five of those years as us being best friends. We have had a lot of time to think about it, and we are also choosing a long engagement (3-4 years) to make sure we are ready to get married.
Like PPs have said, an engagement/marriage isn’t about money. It sounds weird when it’s made out to be.
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2016 - Akron, OH
You are all right! I just enjoy hearing what you have to say. I mean, we’ll be together wether we get engaged sooner or later. I should really just stop complaining for now and learn to relax a little bit. I think I begin reading too much intio what he hints at and become over zealous when I see other’s my age getting engaged. *sigh* I know it will happen eventually. I do want him to do it on his time and when he’s ready and not because I want him to. I’m patiently standing by while he accomplishes his dreams. I’m just glad I can be along for the ride. He is younger than me, I think that is a factor. None of his friends are getting engaged because they’re all still in college. He has said many times that he’ll most likely be ready when he reaches my age. Basically he wants to be done with school and find a good full time job in order to support himself more. I totally get that. I love him anyway. I’m happy, so very happy.
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