(Closed) I need your help Bees

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Post # 3
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’ll do it. πŸ™‚ 

Name: Anni
Age: 20 
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) Engaged
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.

A partner who excites and loves me every day.

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why

Brains. I may be biased because I am in the field of Psychology and understand our brains as they relate to emotion, reason, language, etc. 

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads

Sandy blonde, because that’s my fiance’s hair color. πŸ™‚ 

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences

Nature, wine, talking.

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?

Lack of compassion or lack of respect for an equal partnership.

6.) Sex before monogamy?

Monogamy is crucial – sex is between us. 

Thanks for answering my questions!

Post # 5
Member
2765 posts
Sugar bee

What do you mean by, “Sex before monogamy”?  Just wondering!

Post # 7
Member
166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Having sex with your partner when you are dating other people? or having sex with multiple partners when you are single and dating? I’m confused too?

Post # 9
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1740 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

ill play too

 

Name: Desi
Age: 27
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.

Someone who gets me exactly the way I am.

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why

Brains, because intelligence will help you find the way to happiness and accomplishment. 

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads

Brunettes

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences

Eating in an ethnic restaurant (indian, maroccan, Vietnamese). A great brodway show  and some wine after.

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?

bad relationship with parents, no future, bad with kids, dont like animals.

6.) Sex before monogamy?

Monogamy is important. 

Post # 10
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1232 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I’ll play!!

Name: Justine
Age: 22
Relationship Status: Married
Orientation: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.
Loving, compassionate, understanding, slow to anger, Mike πŸ™‚

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why
Brains. I’ve dated “hunks” in the past and while it’s fun at first to have that eye candy on your arm the relationship becomes very dull when you realize that the hunkiness is all that he has going for him. Conversations are boring and you realize you have nothing in common. Luckily I found a hunk with brains πŸ™‚

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads
Brunette

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences
A picnic at the beach!

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?
physical or emotional abuse

6.) Sex before monogamy?
Um, no? I think.

Post # 12
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2196 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’ll try to get Fiance to do this too…

Name: (I’m the only person on facebook with this name who ISN’T Asian, so can we just call me ‘June’?)Age: 21Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) EngagedOrientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.

A tall, dark-haired, hardworking, ambitious, intelligent, understanding, compassionate man. πŸ™‚

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why

Brains, because brains keep producing interesting and exciting things throughout life, but beauty just fades in time.

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads

BRUNETTES.  No question πŸ˜›

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences

We go to an amazing vegan restaurant and have a 5-course meal complete with lots of organic wine and cocktails. Then go dancing at some club hidden in the Lower East Side that plays fun and eclectic music, and drink only enough to make us loosen up and really get into dancing.  Then head back to a schmancy hotel for a little fun (I know! Too Much Information but um…that’s the perfect end to a date).

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?

Dishonesty about something pretty major.  Doesn’t really matter what, just the magnitude suffices. 

6.) Sex before monogamy?

Uh, well it’s not my preference but I don’t care what anyone else does.

Thanks for answering my questions!

Post # 13
Member
2058 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Fun – – I”ll participate Wink

Name: Marissa
Age: 30
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) Engaged
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.  A partner filled w/ love laughter and adventure for a lifetime.

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why?  Brains. It will offer endless amounts of upward mobility!

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads?  Always brunettes, mmmm

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences.  Dim lights and light music, along the water with continuous conversation and a bottle of wine.

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker? RESPECT

6.) Sex before monogamy? Not too clear on this question…I will not condone any additional activities w/ other person(s.)  Monogomy is vital in our relationship!

Thanks for answering my questions!

Post # 14
Member
1209 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Name: Tonya
Age: 28
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.

Someone who takes me as I am.

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why

Brains for sure…well at least at this point in my life. Good conversation is much more important to me now that I am getting older. I used to be all about looks! Lucky for me my guy is super smart and a cutie!

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads

Brunette

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences

Dinner. Wine. Music.

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?

Lack of respect for my family and close lifelong friends. My family and friends are the MOST important things in my life.

6.) Sex before monogamy?

Monogamy is key!! Well, in my relationship it is! =)

Thanks for answering my questions!

Post # 15
Member
3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Name: Charis
Age: 24
Relationship Status: ( Single, Dating, Engaged, Married) engaged
Orientation: Straight, Gay, Bi Sexual: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.

respect, honesty, trustworthy, patience, compassion, understanding, fun!

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why? neither. Its the quality of relationship you based your life on. My man def wont win quizes but he is caring and sensitive and thoughtful. So which category does that fit in?

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads: brunette!!

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences

movies, walk and coffee and cake.

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker? dishonesty

6.) Sex before monogamy?  monogamy.

Post # 16
Member
239 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Name: A
Age: 20
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.

Someone who is patient, understanding, loves all unconditionally, and supportive.

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why

Brains–Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and brains can be beautiful!

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads

Brunettes

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences

A wonderful dinner out followed by a movie and cuddling at home.

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?

Cheating or racism.

6.) Sex before monogamy?

No.

 

My fiance answered too! …

Name: D
Age: 22
Relationship Status: Engaged
Orientation: Straight

Please answer these questions as honestly as you can!

1.) Please explain what you are looking for in your perfect mate in 10 words or less.

Funny, understanding, patient, loving.

2.) What is more important Brains or Beauty and why

Brains. Stupid people annoy me.

3.) Blondes, Brunettes, or Red Heads

Brunettes.

4.) Explain your perfect date in less then 3 sentences

Food. Bowling. Being together.

5.) What would be a relationship deal breaker?

Cheating.

6.) Sex before monogamy?

Nope.

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