(Closed) I need your support bee’s :-(

posted 7 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Dear Heatherloveskenny,

I’m so sorry to hear you are having such a bad time of it, I am as well getting married 3 weeks from today, so I certainly understand all the stress your under. Unfortunately once you get stressed out everything just seems to go wrong….I also have a very large history of Panic Attacks, and just to put you at ease if you didnt know already it is very common for you to lose feeling, or have an alover tingly feeling in your face and appendages, this has happened to me before and I though i was dieing lol. It just has to do with the level of the anxiety attack, and also once you start hyperventilating it just all goes down hill from there.

Like you I’ve been having a lot of issues with the upcoming wedding. As far as your Maid/Matron of Honor goes, i’m sure you love this person, they wouldnt have this honor if you didnt. but unfortunately, they seem to think this day is about them, which its NOT! This day is about you and your gunna be husband. My advice to you would be to lay down the law so to speak and tell them, exactly what you want, tell them about themselves, this is not about them, nor do they have any business running their mouths to everyone, they need to suck it up, and if they cant then unfortunately you should go ahead with your day without them. its a very hard situation, but at this wonderful time in your life you do not need anyone who is having a bad attitude and wants to complain and cause problems, bottom line!

As far as your fiance goes, i would just say yall need to have a long sit down, you need to tell him exactly how what he said made you feel. Obviously i can only go by what im reading here, but it sounds like their some issues there, no relationship is perfect, beleive me I know. But every relationship can get better no matter what point it is at. Unfotunately he may not know how or be mature enough to not react in the way that he did:( But he does need to know thats not okay! you need him to support you the most when your feeling down.

I hope you can start feeling better about this whole situation, and feel free to message me if you ever need to talk. Good luck!

Nyssa

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