(Closed) I proposed, he rejected?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 31
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Sugar bee
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woobie8709:  I did. He just isn’t into her. That is not a character flaw, they just don’t seem to have the level of relationship seriousness (barring the time they have been together) where she should get automatic invites to things. Length of time does not make up for intimacy automatically. 

I feel bad for the OP if she has convinced herself this relationship is more serious than it is, because it is definitely one- sided. 

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j_jaye:  I don’t really get that either. I guess she was seeing if she’d got it all wrong and if he said yes it would prove he loved her? But it’s hard to understand.

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unlucky:  Don’t be just another gap-filler in his life. He just wants “a” girlfriend.

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unlucky:  I think i would be pretty hurt by the fact that he is acting like nothing happened after i bore my heart to someone and asked them to marry me.

I would be more hurt at that than him saying no. He sounds like an immature ass_hat. He isn’t acting any different because he doesn’t need to. You still talk to him when he wants, will probably hang out and hook up with him as well (at least that is what he is thinking).

I think you broke up with him hoping he would have some sort of big realization… it isn’t happening. Time to move on and cut ties COMPLETELY. 

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