(Closed) I Pushed Back My Engagement

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

That’s a very, very mature way to handle the situation. And it’s not easy at all to do it. But I admire you for it! If I could, I would have done the same.. 🙂

Post # 5
1798 posts
Buzzing bee

I think it’s awesome that you can admit to yourself (and him) that you realized you’ve been immature about the whole situation, and now you are really thinking about the long term rather than just getting the ring on your finger! I try not to push my SO for an engagement right now because we are still getting settled in jobs and everything, and I just know that as soon as we are engaged I will just be pushing for when we’re getting married, so I would rather be un-engaged than trying to plan a wedding with basically no funds for it!

Post # 6
1220 posts
Bumble bee

@southernbelle381:  I think you did the right thing and in your situation, as hard as it would have been for me to push it back, I think I would have done the same thing. Kudos to you for making such a tough decision!

Post # 7
2107 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Good job coming to this conclussion. i am in the same boat, though I am having a hard time with the waiting, and being mature and waiting lol. I hope he finds a job soon!!!

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