(Closed) I really don't believe this is happening

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1603 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@sosadbee72:  I am so sorry this is happening. I think you maybe need to consider getting a retraining order. He is being scary. You haven’t done anything wrong and deserve to feel safe and move on with your life.

Post # 4
4311 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You did not do anything.  1. Call the cops 2. Alert all of your family members and close friends.  This guy does not sound stable.

Post # 5
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You don’t deserve this, at all! I’m so sorry you are having to deal with such a psycho! You did the right thing though by telling your supervisor. You should also call the police if it continues. Don’t give into his actions. Don’t contact him. That’s what he wants. Do your best to ignore him but please make sure you are staying safe. He sounds like a nut job.


Post # 6
4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Call the police!

Post # 7
1444 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You need to inform the police and get a restraining order.  Please DO NOT take this lightly…this person is threatening your life!!  *hugs*

Post # 8
3368 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Oh sweetheart, you need to contact the police immediately and get a restraining order. “I can destroy you – your life and your career.” is a threat, and should be treated as such. Your ex does not sound like he is mentally stable, and he’s obviously going to great measures (i.e. getting a new number that you don’t know) to try and scare the heck out of you. 

Please, contact the authorities. Alert your family, friends, and your boss of what he looks like so that they can be aware of his presence and what is going on. 

NONE of this is your fault. He sounds like he is mentally sick. 

Post # 9
6123 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

That is a major threat. I’d be alerting the police. Next time you do get an unknown text, don’t answer it either. 

Post # 10
4415 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012



Is it possible he’s gotten into drugs or something? I once dated a guy for a while who had formerly been a drug user. I broke up with him, he got back on drugs, he started in with the total crazy. It sounds a lot like your ex, actually — weird texts that don’t make any sense and have no context; bizarre threats like “I will ruin you” and “you will regret this” but never anything specific. In that case, I actually called his mom and tattled on him, since I knew she’d be able to do a hell of a lot more to stop him than the police could at that point. If he’s really come unglued, it may not be a bad idea to let someone close to him know so they can try to reel him in. And, of course, call the police!!

Post # 11
942 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@deetroitwhat:  +1


The cops need to know about this harassment– it’s ILLEGAL already. This freak needs a restraining order ASAP…please take care of this immediately before he completely flips shit and kills you. Take him serious. 

Post # 12
4932 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Restraining order, police, and be escorted to and from work. Keep your cell on you at all times, on you, not in your purse. Maybe have him sent a cease and desist. Sorry you’re going through this. 

Post # 14
190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Don’t call the cops, just grab a glock and wait by the front door for his arrival. Betcha it scares him more than any flashy red lights would… Intended to be taken light heartedly… But seriously if you don’t feel safe get a restraining order.

Post # 15
3697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Time for a PPO.  In court is the last time you’ll have to see him – if he shows up.

Post # 16
39 posts

Definitely contact the police. If anything, soyou have record of the threatening note in case anything else happens. If he persists, get a restraining order ASAP!

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