(Closed) i really dont know what to do anymore!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think you need to have a talk with him to let each other know where you want to be with your lives in a year, in 5 years, and so on. One thing that concerns me is that you are living with his parents. Maybe that is what is holding things up. Maybe if you both were able to become more independant of his parents, you would find your way to engagement/marriage. For now, I would just be content with helping his sister get through her wedding and also have a talk to see what you both see for your futures.

Post # 4
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2907 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@aprose:sounds like you need a hug.

waiting sucks. sorry 🙁 unfortunately i have no idea if you’re being unrealistic, but at least you do have a lot of good things in your life. (i know that doesn’t help because i’m in a similar boat)

maybe talk to him a little, say it’s stressing you out and you aren’t really sure why but you want to talk. take it easy though. guys are weird when they feel pressured (well, so are we)

from all the married ladies out there, they all seem to say it’s worth the wait.

smile 🙂 it will work out, sounds like he knows that you’re his future, he just needs help starting that future sooner rather than later.

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