(Closed) I really just need to vent…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
23602 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Brooklyn55:  Aww sweetie, you sound like you could just use a hug. 🙂  We all need to vent from time to time, and I totally understand where you’re coming from!  Sorry things didn’t quite work out the way you had planned!

Post # 4
Member
1846 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Sorry things didn’t work out the way you hoped. I do think you’re over reacting about the gift (or lack of gift) you received. She got you something, she probably didn’t realize there was a minimum spend threshold she was supposed to meet. To me it sounds like a funny gag gift, perfect for a bachelorette party. 

Post # 5
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129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

awww sometimes ppls don’t know how to put other ppl first.  You then see what kind of person they really are. Great that you had a good time without them, maybe they would have dragged the mood down anyways

Post # 8
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4574 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Brooklyn55:  It sucks things dont turn out the way you want or people act not the way you expect them to act, especially when you were so supportive and giving when it was her time.  However, try to brush it off, I know its easier said than done, but you will see that once you are married to the man of your dreams, none of this will matter anymore.  Girls can be so difficult sometimes.  Im glad, however, you had fun after they head back home, maybe it was for the best. 

Post # 9
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3 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Brooklyn55:  I agree, I would’ve been disappointed as well. With the gift and mostly with the girls wanting to leave so soon when it was supposed to be a whole weekend thing. I’ve been to bachelorette parties and I understand how it can be clique-ish with girls and some girls feel uncomfortable. I remember two in general that I was at where you could cut the tension with a knife. It was like one set of friends on this side and another on the other side. It was super uncomfortable. Maybe that was going on and you weren’t even aware of it. Definitely dont assume it was anything about you. All you can do at this point is just let it roll off your back. Im trying to take the whole approach of “in a year will all of this really matter?” it sometimes helps! Best of luck to you!

Post # 10
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1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I like the advice to not assume this is all about you. It likely had nothing to do with you and everything to do with other factors. Focus on the good and all will be fine. Wink

I think it’s great you had a great time with the other gals. 

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