Post # 1
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Bumble bee
SO and I went to a Halloween party on Sat and on our way back to my house we were talking and I asked him if I could guess a date and he would tell me the truth. He agreed and I guessed 11/30 and he said I was wrong… and then proceeded to tell me why I was wrong, and then I burst out the real date… 2/14. He’s devastated and feels he has to change the plans because I know the date… but I don’t know all the details! Ugh now I’m upset and He’s upset. Waiting sucks
Post # 3
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Honey bee
@annasaf83: awww, that’s too bad! Well, now you know… no more guessing games! Eager as you are, it just isn’t worth it. Who knows, maybe he’ll come up with a sooner date?
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
I’m on the same boat. SO said he is going to propose by THIS month! But we have a few more days left. Everytime I make a snarky remark about not having a ring yet, he said he’s added an extra day to propose. lol. I’m so trying not to think about it.
Post # 5
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Newbee
annasaf83: He’s devastated and feels he has to change the plans because I know the date…
Sigh! Why don’t these guys get that if they’re gonna do a big, surprise thing, that they have to take responsibility for ALL areas of it, including our anxious queries??? I hope your guy did and just told you that to throw you off. g’LUCK!
echolove: Everytime I make a snarky remark about not having a ring yet, he said he’s added an extra day to propose.
OMG, he’s awesome! -hehe :p
Post # 6
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Bumble bee
@blinkingSTAR: Lol… He is. I can’t help but laugh. He just did it to me yesterday.
Post # 7
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Sugar bee
@annasaf83: *hugs* It’s ok, these things happen when our men tease us about things. Just take deep breaths and remember that the reason he told you is because he’s just as excited as you are!
It will happen and it will be marvellous.
Post # 8
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Worker bee
I don’t know why we do this. We don’t want to know but we try to find out anyway?!
Post # 9
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Helper bee
you knew he had a ring and he would ask soon, but you kept pushing for a date? why couldnt that have been enough. you even pushed for answers about dates from your friend about this, you shouldve left it alone, and waited for him to ask. now the damage is done, only pushed it further.
Post # 10
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Bumble bee
Aww don’t stress hun. If he still proposes on that date it’ll be a surprise because you have no idea what he has planned, and if he changes the day it may be even sooner. Either way, you haven’t ruined anything.
Post # 11
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Bumble bee
@katlovesjames: I know, I kept telling him that I didn’t know all the fine details and I wanted them to be kept secret but I wanted to know the when so I could be prepared!
Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
I am so happy my DH kept it such a secret from me because I would have ruined it too lol
Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
If he wanted it to be a surprise, Valentine’s Day probably wasn’t the best choice! Do not worry my dear, you haven’t ruined anything. It will happen and it will be amazing! Until then, Happy waiting!!
Post # 14
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Bumble bee
@HeartsandSparkles: haha I know, He originally had said no holidays or special occasions… then he says well no one has ever had the day off from work unless it was on a weekend, which was how I guessed it. That’s still a holiday! lol