(Closed) I ruined my surprise proposal :(

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

You still dont know how, and (you dont know what the ring looks like?) so can still be suprised about that.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Sweetie, calm down, did he say an exact date?

the fact that you know wont make you less excited, believe me πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Yes, you shouldn’t have snooped but you can’t go back and undo it. I agree that telling him would make him feel horrible Just try to be happy and excited that it’s going to happen!! This is good news.  Believe me, you will be excited and thrilled when it happens no matter what.

And stop snooping from now on! It’s really not good for your relationship to do that.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Don’t say anything to friends, family or Him…. Thr real suprise will be how and does it and the ring… relax things will be fine then

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

It’ll be ok dear πŸ™‚ this is such an exciting time, you are still going to be super happy when the time comes ! Try to keep yourself busy and not guessing too much  πŸ™‚ Enjoy every moment when it happens and stop snooping πŸ™‚ hehe

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Maybe he’ll change his mind and propose before then.  I really hope he doesn’t decide to wait and then all week-end you’re thinking “Now?  Now?  Now?” and then he waits until you’re almost home!  What a long week-end that would be!

 

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Oh, don’t worry at all! I’m a huge snoop and found the ring ahead of time!! It did not ruin anything at all – I was still delighted and taken by surprise, and he will never ever know! And honestly, I even forgot about and was totally taken by surprise! Yes, there were a few moments where he like, bent to tie his shoe and I was like “OMG, is this it?” but after nothing happens a few times it will slip your mind! LOL Don’t feel like an ass!  I didn’t and still don’t!

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I know how hard it is not to snoop.  So you will get no judgment from me.  Heck, I snooped and found out where my SO was taking me on our one year anniversary.  I had to act all surprised. 

 

At least there are still things you don’t know… and you will have time for you anticipation to build.  So, just rice that wave.

Post # 15
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Busy bee

The bigger question is why we’re you reading his PRIVATE messages. That not just regular snooping. Thats a complete violation of privacy

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@blingbling:  Reading private things is the definition of snooping? 

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