(Closed) I ruined my surprise proposal :(

posted 10 years ago in Proposals
Post # 17
228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

If you don’t know when that weekend he is going to propose, you will still be surprised! And on the up side, you know to get your nails done for engagement ring pictures Smile

But I seriously hope you have learned your lesson about respecting his privacy! If I found out my BF was snooping through my private messages I would be irate! Not becasue I’m doing anything wrong but becasue it shows a complete lack of trust. Not healthy for a good relationship.

So make sure to work on the issues behind your snooping and enjoy the big moment when it comes!!

Post # 18
761 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@blingbling:  Why is that the bigger question?

Post # 19
2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@blingbling:  What’s “regular snooping” if not reading private messages. :S


To the OP, snooping is wrong and bad and shouldn’t be done, but if you got the feeling he was being sneaky and supisous then I can’ understand (but not condone) why you were looking, it’s just that he was doing a good thing and not a bad one!

One piece of advice (other than no more snooping) – don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t happen!! He might chicken out or his plans might not work out and he might decide to hold off until he can do it “right”. So please don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t happen, because that would be the worst thing ever! 

Post # 20
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My boyfriend told someone he was gonna prpose at christma… in 2010 so its been a year and a half nd he still hasnt. He might not so dont be upset or excited. Don’t get your hopes up either… Undecided

Post # 21
180 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I had a gut feeling when my Fiance proposed, but I was still so shocked on how he did it and seeing the ring! Don’t stress! You never know what he has in store! 

Post # 22
45 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

It will be okay! I kinda knew when it was going to happen and he still surprised me, it was still magical, and it was still everything I hoped it would be! 🙂

Post # 23
4176 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

so glad to hear this! ring pix?

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