- 7 years ago
So, after AGES of me being annoying and jokingly nagging about when are we gonna get married/engaged, SO finally gave in the other night and said that we CAN get engaged but he just wants to make it right. It was always inevitable that he would propose but this confirms he is thinking about it positively now. So I suppose I can officially report back that a proposal in the works, somewhere, and he is no longer thinking he has to get all his ducks in a row before asking me – just that he has to plan the proposal and I guess such things take some time.
The point I wanted to make was that as soon as he said that, I felt AWFUL because I really didn’t think he was thinking about it and knowing that he’s even considering how he might like to propose me made me feel really impatient and horrible. This has been said SO MANY times before on these boards but I thought I’d just reiterate that a lot of us bees should be more patient. I read that so many times but I really thought my guy wasn’t ready for an engagement or anything. And maybe he still isn’t just yet. But it is in the works and it is forming in his head and I really hope I can be more patient and just leave him to it now because I’d love for it to be a perfect, brilliant, romantic, total surprise.
Maybe none of you need to be told, maybe you’re all much better waiters than me, and if so, well done to you! 🙂