(Closed) I should probably go anonymous for this but….

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 122
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Sugar bee

@Paiger8:  Yes, 24 is still so young with plenty of time to start over again. I am 27 and I still consider myself very young. We have our entire lives ahead of us.

Post # 125
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m sorry OP, you really need to walk out on him. It’s easy to see the ring and think of it as a light at the end of the tunnel, like he’ll propose and you will suddenly be a happy engaged couple. I’m sorry, but I really don’t see that happening. He’s trying to break you, subdue your self-worth and independence. Don’t let him. You’re better than that. 

Post # 126
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

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@Paiger8: Yup. I stole it from Dan Savage. 🙂

Post # 127
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@Paiger8:  Then it’s not hard — logistically — to break up with him.  Don’t write a letter — talk to him.

 

“Frank, I am upset all the time because you are too critical.  Nothing I do is ever enough for you.  So, I’m breaking up with you.  This will allow you to find a woman who is worthy of your fantastic self.”

Ta da!

Post # 128
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

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@Paiger8:  Just wanted you to know that I’m thinking of you.  It sounds like you need to dig deep and do some soul searching.  Do you want to be with someone that treats you this way?  Do you feel like you deserve more?  ~  When I was separated from my husband, I read a book called “Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay”.  I would highly recommend that to you.  It will help you to make the best decision for your future.    

Post # 130
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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@Paiger8:  I just wanted to add that I hope things work out for the best for you! you deserve to be happy!

Post # 132
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@pookiesmom:  You’re close! DTMFA: Dump the motherfucker already. 

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@Paiger8:  As a prior poster said, this is only going to get worse! He’s probably going to tell you he’ll change, etc., but the relationship as you have described does not sound worth salvaging.  As you said, you are young and have plenty of time!

Post # 133
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@Paiger8:  Write down what you want to say, but don’t just hand him a letter.  I know breaking up is hard, but he’s being a completely asshole to you.

 

Post # 134
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

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@Paiger8:  ohhh my god, what a dick!!!  I really hope your discussion goes something like “You treat me like shit so I’m breaking up with you.”

Seriously. You know what you need to do, right?? Why stay with this dickhole and never know if he’s going to be nice or ridicule you any given moment, when you could find someone you trust to love you and respect you and worship you?  You can do it!

ETA: Sounds like you’re doing it. YES! 😀

Post # 135
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Helper bee

Wow what a catch.  Why would you want to marry a prick like that?  His mom sounds like a real prize too.  The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.  You deserve better than that, go find a man who will treat you right.  I’d rather be alone than be with someone who treats me like crap.

Post # 136
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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@padme:  +100

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