(Closed) I shouldn’t have peeked but I did- now what do you think?!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

:-O ! Naaauuughty. You’re just gonna have to act really surprised haha.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

He may not be planning to do it on the 14th. My fiance proposed on a day with absolutely no significance. Oooh, now every time he mentions going out you’re going to get nervous and want to get all dressed up ahaha

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

So bad!! πŸ˜‰ hehe…

Well, don’t feel bad about snooping and not being surprised. He may not necessarily be proposing on that specific day. He might just want it to be ready so that it will be ready for the next day..or the weekend..etc. So really, you still have no clue when he’ll do it, and it will be a wonderful surprise for you anyway πŸ™‚

But either way…. EEEEE!!! So exciting!! :):)

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

Maybe he wants it early to show someone before he proposes? Just a thought! Congrats!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

STOP SNOOPING!!! He was going to surprise you with an early proposal and now you know!!  So stop!!! 

 ….but CONGRATS TOO!! Keep calm. Keep busy and try not to think about it any more!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Wait, did he have it sized down 1/4 or a whole size?????

And stop snooping!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

ah, good luck with this large surprise and weight on your sholders! I had to carry this weight around for a month of so. My fiance and I talked about looking at rings and we ended up finding a few that I really loved and lone and behold a receipt comes in the mail! I asked if I can open it and he said yes even though it was addressed to him. I was expecting a coupon from them in the mail but thought it was strange they addressed it to him. THEY made a huge mistake by mailing him the receipt after they were asked to not send anything by mail and only contact him at work. Then I knew and I felt horrible!!! About a month later we went on a ‘surprise’ trip that I also found out about and on the trip I accidently found the ring box in his backpack when I was trying to find my wallet…I wasn’t too surprised when he proposed that evening but we do tell everyone that I was and leave out the long story. sorry didn’t mean to go into full detail.

It is really exciting knowing already!!! I loved and but I also wished it was a totol surprise.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Bad bee LOL

When I ordered a promise ring for my SO I made sure it got to me before a certian date but I wasn’t planning to give it to him till 2 weeks later. I just wanted to have it so that I wouldn’t have to worry about it and because sometimes things happen that are out of our control and not our fault. Also sometimes there mey be delays with jewellery stores. You always want to give yourself enough time.

So I wouldn’t worry about it, just enjoy every day as it comes πŸ™‚ 

 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@I3ee:  “but he is really good at “completely” throwing me off so even after having read that, I still am completely unsure!” <– this is a good thing! Haha :). Relax and enjoy the fact that it will be happening sometime during your timeframe, and it will more than likely be a complete surprise! Smile

@kcweddinggirl:  Oh no! That sucks that the company messed up and that your SO didn’t hide it on his body or in a better place! I have also found my ring (not finished with the stone though), but will never tell him! My SO is bad at hiding things. It was in his sock drawer! I mean, come on, I do all the damn laundry at our place, LOL!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Its soooo hard not to snoop!  i was alone in the house last night foldin laundry and it was SO tough not to tear through the drawers.  But at the same time, I want to know if he had moved the ring from his parents house to our house!  I want to be prepared for it to happen!

You want to be suprised, but at the same time, its tough not to snoop!  I’m a planner by nature so want to ready when it does happen πŸ™‚ 

Hang in there! 

 

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