(Closed) I shouldn’t want kids so badly right now!!! But, I do.

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
Bee
6473 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

You’re not nuts! We have been TTC since December (six months BEFORE the wedding) even though we knew it wouldn’t have been an ideal time to succeed. It’s completely random when the urge strikes. 😉

Post # 4
Member
5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Mrs Hedgehog: Oh, me me! It was ridiculous. The ring went on my finger, and I all of a sudden I was like BABY BABY BABY. And we CANNOT AFFORD IT right now. But it’s really hard, esp. because I’m 31 and feel like it would otherwise be the perfect time for me, career-wise. F this F-ing economy and our poor life choices (ahem grad school).

Post # 5
Member
4583 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I hear you. Part of me really wants to start a family right away, but it just isn’t practical right now. We need to pay off debt, potentially move to a better neighborhood, travel and just enjoy being married before we can really focus on having kids. I know it makes sense to wait a year or two, or even three. But the waiting is so hard!

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