(Closed) I stopped tracking and now I feel guilty…

posted 7 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I just wanted to say in sorry you are going through this.

Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I was hopeless when we first started our treatments, especially when the first round didn’t even make me ovulate! We went through 6 more rounds after that and then at the doctors advice took a month off. I use to obsess over every little symptom, every little change in temperature too. We took a month off and it was like a reset button, this cycle I’m more relaxed (and the medications finally worked how they should). I still get those moments of why me and how come it’s so easy for everyone else, but I find that for me not tracking makes things less stressful. I hope you are able to find what works for you, for me not tracking me things a lot less stressful and I’m more hopeful that medications will finally help and we will get our miracle baby. And when that baby comes, all of this will be a distant memory!

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

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juliette.eliza: Please don’t feel guilty. I kinda know how you feel. We stopped actively trying for 8 months and here I am now at 34 and feel like I’ve wasted precious time. Sometimes though a break can do your mind good. Even though I need to temo to confirm O I can’t in a way as then I become too obsessed. By just using OPKs etc is what my mind can handle where I stay sane – well relatively so 😉  Stay focused but don’t let it consume you – you’ll find a way / even something to distract your mind. Fortunately I’ve started a new job that helps distract my mind.

Good luck in your TTC journey.

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