- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2015
Hello again, Bees!
I haven’t posted in a while; I’m a waiting bee (obviously, haha) and was given a “sometine this year” timeline, so, sometime in 2013. Not too much longer!
However, SO and I decided to move from Chicago to Northern CA this year, which of course cost us some $$$. So I figured the move would extend the timeline, which I am more than fine with – in fact, I had kind of hoped he would extend the timeline so that it wouldn’t be too financially stressful for him. (Yes, I’ve had MAJOR waiting anxiety/anger/self-pity this year, but somehow lately I’ve been cool as a cucumber about it. Go figure.)
Fast forward to last month, when SO randomly mentions I should be careful not to look in a folder on his desktop because I might “ruin a surprise” – this folder was one that had diamond specs saved from when he took me ring shopping once, titled. Before this, he knew I would open the file every now and then to make googly eyes at the specs 🙂 haha.
So of course I opened the folder. BUT. I just looked at the file names, I didn’t open any ACTUAL files. (this would be the light snooping referred to in the post title). Don’t hate me. I just saw that there were like 4 or 5 new files, but nothing else. Still – YAY! Progress!! He was definitely doing something engagement-related!!
Now today, I had to go in the office for something and he had left the PC monitor on, and I -ahem – glanced at it and saw that the folder is now EMPTY!! To me, this means that he didn’t need the specs anymore because he FINALLY BOUGHT THE RING!!!! AAAHHH!
Or, I guess, maybe he changed his mind about the whole thing and doesn’t want to get engaged 😉 I’m betting it’s the first thing.
Our 6 year anniversary is coming up at the end of the month, so – MAYBE!
Thanks for reading – I just needed to share!!