- 3 years ago
My bf and I have been dating for 2.5 years now and we’re very happy, talking seriously about getting engaged within the next few months.
Im ecstatic and think he’s the perfect man in every way except one, he smokes weed / hash a LOT.
He will smoke off and on throughout the day and night, and I’m guessing all together it must equal out to around 3 or 4 joints per day.
I will say that surprisingly, his smoking does not really affect his personality, it just makes him tired at times.
I do not smoke at all and am actually very against it, I don’t even drink, I guess you could say I’m a bit of a goody two shoes lol. That being said, obviously I’m extremely concerned about my Bf’s habit.
He says he wants to cut down the amount he smokes but still will smoke any chance he gets, and he also gets VERY defensive if someone makes a negitive comment about his smoking or weed in general.
Im so worried about his health and I also find it very unattractive, to the point where if he just smoked and then tries to kiss me I’ll get instantly turned off.
So bees, what can I do to help him and this situation??
I’m worried to push the subject out of fear that it’ll make him rethink getting married soon, but at the same time I can’t let him go on like this.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated