- 5 years ago
- Wedding: January 2015
They are both acting like nothing happened, but my mom can’t even cover up well hahahaha! Obviously I’m not supposed to know… BUT what else am I going to think when him and my mom ride together alone, you know??? So here is the story, this weekend, I was a Bridesmaid in my cousin’s wedding, so my guy picked up my mom so they could go to the wedding together, since I’d be preparing for the wedding. They are never left alone because I’m always around, so I assumed that that would be the opportunity he would use to ask. (My parents are divorced and while I would appreciate if he asks my dad, out of respect, it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker). So today my mom asks me “so did So-and-so tell you EVERYTHING we talked about????” And I say yes (because I thought he did, he *says* they talked about Nigerian culture, since I am and he’s not). And then she starts talking about him saying how me and him have been together for over 2 years, blah blah….and if he had permission to marry me. And how my mom said “yes”! So I was cheesing super hard lol, because I had a clue, but I didn’t think she’d actually spill the beans!!!! My sister and her coworker were there and heard the story as well and kinda got on her about telling me. She then played it off saying “well of course that didn’t happen, I was just joking!!! Why would I tell you that?! I was just playing, to see your reaction. He better tell me in a more respectable place, like at a restaurant or something!!!!!”
So while 80% of myself wants to think that was just a bad cover up…the other 20% is over analyzing that she really might have been kidding lol. What do you think??? Why would she kid about that, you know? Me and him have talked about life in detail and I have showed him rings I like, and I don’t want to blow up in excitement. So I KNOW it will happen, it’s just a matter of when! This wait is killing me!!!