I think he had an affairposted 1 week ago in Relationships
- 5 days ago
- Wedding: November 2017
beepboopbop : Based on his initial actions I bet he didn’t confess to anything but continues to lie/gaslight. Prolly playing a waiting game, sleeping in the other room pretending to be a victim of ops lack of trust(!), gaslighting her, hoping OP will get worn down enough to sweep this under the rug…..
I hope she is doing ok but updates us too…
- 1 day ago
- Wedding: February 2020
umm, something’s not right here. but i’d suggest you not to consider the worst at this stage though
- 21 hours ago
Update. Well he still stands by his word that there was no affair. He says I need to trust him and move on. My heart has already been guarded. Hes “working late” again tonight. And soon the season will pick up that means travel. Idt this is the first or last affair. As hes traveled for a month at a time the last 2 years. I hate myself for being so naive. Ive also been a housewife during our 6 year marriage. His career has always come 1st and I let myself get used to that. Well in the days since I posted I got a job. And am going to continue my studies in the fall. I’m getting all of my ducks in a row so to speak..thank you everyone for your support
- 20 hours ago
It’s great that you are getting a job and going back to school!
If I were you, I’ll show up at his workplace when he is working late. Just so you can see if he is really working. At this point, you can’t trust his word. I would show up with some coffee or tea “as a gesture” and excuse to stop by. If you can confirm that he is really working, it will put your mind at peace. If not, you know what to do!
- 16 hours ago
If you were able to ascertain the location of the coworker’s house that he was at, I think my first step would be to drive by and see if he is there. And if he was, I wouldn’t tell him I knew. I would allow him to get careless again and in the meanwhile contact a divorce lawyer and gather all the information I needed without warning him.