I think he had an affair

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 46
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

I mean I hear you, but I imagine going through this big of a life crisis, updating strangers may not be her first priority. But I do come back and check daily for updates! beepboopbop :  

Post # 47
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Blushing bee

hockeybee0104 :  that’s fair. I just felt like the OP’s last update was a bit of a cliffhanger. It sounded like he might have confessed to something but we’re still not sure

Post # 48
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

beepboopbop :  Based on his initial actions I bet he didn’t confess to anything but continues to lie/gaslight. Prolly playing a waiting game, sleeping in the other room pretending to be a victim of ops lack of trust(!), gaslighting her,  hoping OP will get worn down enough to sweep this under the rug….. 

I hope she is doing ok but updates us too…

Post # 49
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Busy bee

beepboopbop :  I too also hope she’s doing okay & comes back to update as well! 

Post # 50
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2020

umm, something’s not right here. but i’d suggest you not to consider the worst at this stage though

Post # 52
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Newbee

It’s great that you are getting a job and going back to school! 

If I were you, I’ll show up at his workplace when he is working late. Just so you can see if he is really working. At this point, you can’t trust his word. I would show up with some coffee or tea “as a gesture” and excuse to stop by. If you can confirm that he is really working, it will put your mind at peace. If not, you know what to do! 

Post # 53
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Bumble bee

If you were able to ascertain the location of the coworker’s house that he was at, I think my first step would be to drive by and see if he is there. And if he was, I wouldn’t tell him I knew. I would allow him to get careless again and in the meanwhile contact a divorce lawyer and gather all the information I needed without warning him. 

Post # 54
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

missgypsy :  Good for you getting your ducks in a row, getting a job and going back to school. Congratulations! It’s much less scary to face these changes in life when you know you can support yourself.

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