(Closed) I think he hinted at an engagement? Maybe?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

DariaVixen:  It’s always awesome when guys bring it up by themselves 😀 I think it’s a good sign he’s talking like that… Even if he’s just joking with you, it’s obvious he’s thinking about it. Just try to calm down and gather your thoughts and have an open discussion about it. You don’t have to sit around and wait. You guys both need to be on the same page or you run the risk of disappointment/ having misunderstandings. Talk to him about it. IDK why some girls are ok with being completely blindsided by proposals. You need to know its coming, so you can, if anything, at least have nice nails when he asks. 😉

Post # 3
681 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Nothing wrong with being a girl living alone with lots of animals… It’s how I spent the past 8 years of my life.

He may be sincere or he may be joking.  He sounds a bit immature though if he is joking about cars vs. engagement rings.

Post # 5
2098 posts
Buzzing bee

I think rings on his phone are a good sign.  I also think he might have been fishing for your reaction or a conversation about how you feel about getting married.  Next time you should try to speak up! 

Post # 6
716 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

My Fiance started bringing up websites of rings in front of me a few months before he proposed. I honestly just ignored it and only took it half seriously. Once he did ask we went and bought a ring the next day together. I think some guys will give you signs but I wouldn’t read too much into it so you’re not disappointed if it doesn’t happen soon.

Post # 7
3092 posts
Sugar bee

DariaVixen:  aww! I love little moments like that.

Pics of rings on his phone is DEFINITELY a good sign!! And very random about your family member. Why would he blurt that out to you? lol He is hinting at something or very bad at keeping secrets haha.

My SO always asks if i would get mad if he buys cars first and i just roll my eyes and laugh lol. Or sometimes i say no i wouldnt mind and then stretch my ringless hand in his face and yawn haha.

I have no idea what was so special about yesterday (i think its because we hung out with some friends the night before who attended a wedding that weekend so we were talking about it a lot) but he kept saying in the morning before i left for work how much he loves me and only wants to be with me and could never find another etc. It was very sweet and then off i went to work (he stayed home bc he was sick) and he continued when i came home for lunch saying that if i would like to be selfish and buy something for me instead of a car then we could. He was smiling, of course!

and then after dinner he said if he gets his bonus at work at the end of the year then he would propose! WHAT!?! He said “maybe next year” a few months ago! But it also is not guaranteed he will get it lol so I may still have to wait to next year, but ahhh!! 

sorry to take over LOL im just excited. But this yes. all very good signs for your SO!

Post # 8
2393 posts
Buzzing bee

DariaVixen:  Pics of Tiffany rings on his phone, he’s bringing up the subject of marriage… these are all good signs!

How long have you two been together?

Like you, I also thought I would end up a spinster with lots of animals. (lol) 

I think it’s very promising when the guy brings it up randomly and without being provoked. My Darling Husband also did this. Several months after we started dating, we were at an intimate, romantic cocktail lounge having a late night glass of champagne and the bartender could not help but notice how in love we looked — sitting close, hanging all over each other, being silly and romantic. Darling Husband asked for another round of drinks and the bartender joked, “Would you like me to bring an engagement ring with that?” To my surprise, my Darling Husband said very emphatically, “Yeah, man!” and laughed.

At that moment I was very, very surprised — we’d only been dating three months! 

As the relationship progressed, Darling Husband continued to drop marriage hints, but a couple of times he also made comments that made me wonder if he was not planning on us getting married — similar to your SO joking about getting the car instead of a ring. But we ended up getting married, so he obviously was serious about our commitment.

I think those early signs and those teasing comments are very significant.



@leisha606: Ahhh! Your news sounds very exciting! I will keep my fingers crossed for you! ; )

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