(Closed) I think he’s dirty down there…

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’d probably just bring up reasons as to why it would be hurting when he pee’d…

If you’re really worried about it, go get a std check, and if anything bad comes back, then you can confront him. I’d go asap if I were you.

Post # 4
6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

ooo thats a tough one – has he thought about going and getting tested? have you? maybe you should go first – just to be sure – and tell him that you were worried about his pain and just wanted to be sure so you took it upon yourself to get tested. hopefully he will follow suit. i would just do it in a way that avoids embarrassment and accusations.

i know of several married couples who have one form or another of STD’s and prevention to the other person is completely possible BUT you have to know what you dealing with first.

Post # 5
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

Yes. You need to know what’s going on to make sure you’re healthy, you have the right to know what is going on.

Post # 6
1486 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would make him get tested, if he loves you he should have no issue.

Post # 7
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Maybe he just has a UTI but I would have him go to the doctor and have an STD test while he is there.

Post # 8
74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

If it hurts when he pees, that is definitely an STD and that means he’s running up in girls with no condom.  Too reckless for me.

Post # 10
45 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

@funlovingbridetobe:  Not necessarily.  My Fiance has problems with his prostate (he’s only 23) that started a year into our relationship and he did not have STD, but it hurt like hell for him to pee.


Def get checked, but he might just be having other problems (UTI or prostate)

Post # 11
2114 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think you know what to do…. especially considering your other post..

Post # 12
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think you don’t need our confirmation, also considering your other post like CanadianMermaid said…

Post # 13
312 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It could just be a UTI.  It is less common for men to get them but not impossible.  Hopefully that’s all it is and he’ll be on antibiotics for a week or so.  He does need to go to the doctor though.  I once had a UTI with no symptoms until it turned into a kidney infection and that was some pain I don’t want to relive.

If they find its not a UTI then you need to have a serious talk with him.  I’d refrain from being intimate with him until this is resolved.  If its something more serious like STD than that’s a whole other can of worms.

Post # 14
4354 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Men can get yeast infections as well which can be painful and irritating. It might be nothing STD related. None the less it should be checked out.

Post # 15
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Get to the clinic!

Post # 16
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

If I were you i would go for tests myself first. Make sure you’ve got the all clear and then go back and ask him to investigate the problem. It might be nothing, it might be totally innocent. Based on what the other bees have said, though, and your earlier post, perhaps there are deeper issues, and this is a heads up. He felt confident enough to tell you about this problem though.

In my experience men don’t get the same symptoms as women with STD’s, and cystitis is the usual cause for women having a burning sensation when they wee.

Has he recently been taking antibiotics for anything that you know of?

You have questions, get them answered really really quickly!

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