(Closed) I think he’s running game on me….. CHESS to be EXACT!!!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@MsLonnieBee:  

You two have an agreement, right?

Well here is what i’d do:

You can put it back on him and say, “I’m sorry sweetie, while I think it would be fantastic for us to live together in my house, it’s not something I feel comfortable doing while we are not engaged.  We have the timeline until my birthday, so hopefully you will be ready to propose soon and we can move on to the next step of you moving in here.”

The key is talking about it.  Even if you want him to live there, I wouldn’t allow it until he proposes.  Relationships are about give and take.  Good luck!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I wouldn’t do it until you’re engaged. I think what onelovegal said is a great way to put it. Pressure with no pressure. Annnnnd CHECKMATE! 🙂

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@MsLonnieBee:  Guurrrrrrl, don’t do it! I went ahead and moved in with my boyfriend kind of against my brain, with the mutual understanding that we would be getting engaged as a next step (w/out a ‘firm’ deadline like you have) and no proposal yet.

Now granted, we just moved in together this past October but we have been together five years. If that lease comes up for renewal and I don’t have that rock I’m going to have to learn a little chess myself, lol.

Post # 9
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370 posts
Helper bee

Goodluck bring us back some good news!

Post # 10
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300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Good luck! 

Post # 11
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106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MsLonnieBee:  AHHHHHHH I’m so excited!!!!!! Keep us posted tomorrow. 

Post # 12
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Blushing bee

Any update? Hopefully everything went the way you hoped it would Smile

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