(Closed) I think I am going to ask him to move out…..

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 33
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924 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

aww sweetie – this sucks – what a tough position to be in. At the end of the day, YOU have to be happy and if marriage is important to you, then you deserve a partner that wants it as much as you do.

Given that you have two kids and he is acting as their stepfather, surely he can understand how confusing it is for them not to have it official?

Rather than asking him to move out though, why dont you put the cards all out on the table – explain what you are thinking and feeling, how he always talks but there is never any action and perhaps suggest counselling? if he isnt willing to talk about it, then you have your answer.

Good luck

Post # 34
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755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Would it be possible for you to move out? That seems much free-er and nicer than having to kick him out. And it’s within your control, you don’t have to wait on him to move out. You can let him know you’re thinking of moving out and then look for places, if that puts a fire under his ass then you have your answer. 

I think it’s OK for marriage to be that important to you that you’re willing to leave.  One of the greatest lessons (someone wiser than me said this…) is to be willing to “leave something good for something better”

 

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